Despite the perfect picture families that always seem to loom over us on television, posters and bill boards, there are many more complexities and dynamics to families than all smiles and laughter.
All families are different, and all families have their own issues, but with the right amount of work and determination, you can make your family life the very best it can be, by developing your relationships and learning more about yourself and your relatives. No one’s family life is perfect; but you can make yours good, so why not?
Understand your family well
If you don’t then there can be many misunderstandings and fights. Be with them whenever you can and get to know them better. A lot of families now don’t get to know each other too well because they’re too busy. Plan some family time, like a movie, or a family game, or even as little as eating dinner together.
Respect your family
Your children, your wife/husband are now yours but remember that at the end of the day they are also humans. They also have an opinion or suggestion. Sometimes it can be bad or good. Never be angry with someone’s opinion, they have their opinions, and no one’s perfect.
No one wants to be ignored just for some meeting or work. Give time to each and every one of them so you can understand every individual properly and this can prevent any misunderstandings in the future.
Treat everyone as equal. Whether it’s your maid or stepchild, they also deserve love and affection from you as you deserve from your wife/husband or from your own child. Treat everyone like you would want to be treated, and getting along with your family should be easy.
Never scream or shout at anyone
This can create hatred for you in their hearts. Simply making them understand can do a lot. Why waste energy when you can do it calmly?
Learn to compromise
When you or someone else in your family wants the total opposite of each other, find a way to work it out to give you all what you want.